Open Marriage?

I was reading about Oscar nominee Mo'Nique and was surprised to hear that she and her husband Sidney Hicks have an open marriage! I was also shocked to hear that while she has not had relations with others she can’t say for sure if her husband has. Huh?! If you have this type of a relationship, wouldn’t you want to know—shouldn’t you know? I’d think that was the point of having an open relationship—to not have any secrets.

I don’t know about you, but isn’t the reason we get married to be with only one person? I guess I get the whole swinging thing and people of different cultures having relations with various people while being married, but I certainly don’t agree with it. It’s bad enough that women and men have affairs before they tie the knot, but now we’re allowing them to seek out others while they’re with us? What’s the point of getting married if you’re not satisfied with what you have? How can you go into the marriage knowing your new husband is sleeping with others you know nothing about? How can this not come around someday and bite you? What if he gets someone pregnant or picks up a disease? Why would you want to risk that chance? I guess if both people are OK with this, then it’s no one’s business but theirs.

Have you ever been engaged or married only to find your true love had betrayed you with another woman or man? How did you handle it and do you feel an open marriage prevents people from having affairs and getting divorced? Do you believe that having this type of relationship can only make it stronger?

I’d love to hear what you think, and ladies, NO holding back! Tell me how you really feel!

XO Sam

Posted by Samantha at 2:01 p.m.

Your DIY Guide

A few weeks ago this pretty great book, The DIY Bride Crafty Countdown by Khris Cochran (The Taunton Press, 2009), found it’s way onto my desk. It’s filled with all these super-easy DIY projects that will save you money and make your wedding an event to remember.

the diy bride crafty countdown by khris cochran

What’s so great about this book, other than the fantastic ideas, is that it’s organized in a way that keeps you on track with your wedding timeline. There’s a checklist and a project-planning sheet to help keep you organized, and the projects are broken down according to how far in advance you should complete each one. For example, engagement invites, save-the-dates and thank-yous should be done 12 to 9 months before the wedding while your simple DIY bouquet can be put together a mere six hours before the big event. Yes, she makes it that easy!

What a Swell Party…!

Weddzilla.com. Remember that name because this innovative new website is sure to make your wedding planning a whole lot easier—along with bridalguide.com, of course!—and fun. Why? It’s the first online social wedding platform that combines the planning process with social networking and will enable you to plan, shop and connect with vendors nationwide. It’s a really neat concept and the brainchild of Aaron and Kristen Hall who, when she was engaged, wondered why there wasn’t one website that could help her connect with the type of vendors she was looking for.

Well, needless to say her question soon became an idea, then a work in progress and now a fantastic new site for busy brides like you. One of the site’s many features is a Wedding Guru Panel of industry pros who will offer advice and share experiences with you. I am very excited to be Weddzilla’s Wedding Etiquette Guru. And, in the coming months, look for our new blog section “Bride to Bride,” which will include content by Weddzilla bride bloggers. We’ll be sharing lots more interactive features such as bridalguide.com’s “Wedding Inspiration Boards,” which will also be found on Weddzilla.

To celebrate the launch of their site, the Weddzilla team threw a grand opening party on February 25, 2010, at the National Museum for Women in the Arts in Washington, D.C. I headed down on the train from NYC (good thing as we were hit with two feet of snow that day and all airports were shut down!) along with bridalguide.com’s General Manager, Jennifer Lazarus, and Managing Editor, Lori Francisco. Luckily in D.C. there wasn’t a flake of snow and nearly a thousand people turned out for this “Rock the Launch” party. Here, invited guests line up to register:

 

Toast to This

Guest Blogger: Christina Laurenti

If you’re looking for a gorgeous set of crystal champagne flutes, for your home or the wedding toast, I did a little scouting and found some great options. Here are my top three faves:

1) Celebration Champagne Flutes—Set of 6 at Horchow, $60

 

celebration-flutes Toast in six different languages! The
languages featured on these cylinder-
shaped flutes are Chinese, German,
French, English, Italian and Japanese.

 

2) Bodum Manhattan Double-Wall Thermo Champagne Glasses—Amazon.com, $25.99 (sold individually)

 

How to Avoid a Bridal Scam

To Boston brides who were scammed! Members of Bridal Show Producers International (BSPI) are offering free tickets to four legitimate bridal shows in your area! Call 800-422-3976, ext. 5078.

When the Big Boston Bridal Scam came to light this week, we went straight to Bill Heaton, CEO of The Great Bridal Expo Group (GBE), for his advice on how to avoid getting taken for a ride in the future by some very sophisticated scammers. (FYI, GBE and Bridal Guide have a long-standing relationship.) For those of you who haven’t heard what happened, here’s a rundown: A website called The Boston 411 recently appeared, advertising a bridal show billed as the “biggest and most extravagant” and invited brides and vendors to a Spring Home and Bridal Show at the Hynes Convention Center. Brides paid $10–$15 to pre-register, and vendors paid up to $4,000 to participate. Unfortunately for a lot of people, there was no bridal show.

Bill Heaton’s words to the wise:

Passion Cocktail

Guest Blogger: Christina Laurenti

What is there to do when you're snowed in? Easy answer: Mix yourself a cocktail…after all, you’re not going anywhere! So pay close attention brides, I’ve got the most delectable drink recipe that will sure to please your taste buds. It’s called Passion and the vibrant ruby color looks juicy, rich and luscious. Who knows, you may even make it your wedding’s signature cocktail!


First, I would like to introduce the main ingredient, sparkling wine. Now I know some of you are probably asking, “Isn’t that the same thing as Champagne?” Realistically, yes, but technically, no. Champagne can only be produced from Champagne, France, just like Italian sparkling is known as Prosecco, Spain produces Cava, etc. Essentially it is the same thing, carbonated wine. I suggest using Domaine Saint Vincent or Gruet Brut, which are both excellent sparklings for the price.

You'll also need Fragoli Wild Strawberry Liqueur. Fragoli is a sweet Italian liqueur made from whole wild strawberries, which are floating in the bottle! I purchased mine from Laurentiwines.com.

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